My husband wont have with me - what's wrong with him?

Oh dear. You two have a big problem. Whatever it is, he's not telling you something. Maybe he has just fallen out of love with you? I doubt he's having an affair, but something is seriously wrong. His excuses sound weak. Talk to him and tell him you're afraid you may have to leave him if things don't improve. Maybe this is what he wants? You are too young to have a less marriage and it's not fulfilling your needs anyway - he's going back on his part of the bargain when you got married to "love honour and cherish" you. You can't go on like this, he's just ignoring you and insulting you by his indifference. I do hope you find a way through this as it's obvious you're trying everything you can think of.